5 Simple Tricks to Get a Guy’s Attention (You Won’t BELIEVE #3)

5 Simple Tricks to Get a Guy’s Attention (You Won’t BELIEVE #3)


getting a guy’s attention when you don’t
want a guy’s attention it seems like all the guys tend to be giving you attention
and on the other hand when you do want attention from a guy you actually like
it almost feels like you’re invisible well not anymore you sexy single lady in
this video I’m gonna show you five simple tricks to getting his attention
keep watching hey there Adam little chick from sexy
confidence calm where I help you create your love story and since we are coming
into the holiday season this video is actually sponsored by elfs tarat elf sir
calm which is actually a Secret Santa gift exchange
you know I rarely put sponsor content on this channel but I gotta say elster is
awesome so check it out link in this description now before we dive into
these five simple tricks to getting a guy’s attention I just want to say you
want to avoid these few mistakes first mistake number one is just because
you’re getting guys attention doesn’t mean that he’ll actually be attracted to
you so yes use these tips to get his attention but I cannot guarantee that
he’s necessarily going to want to date you or to be with you and then mistake
number two is being immature about the whole process
please don’t purposely make him jealous or worse having a friend tell his friend
that you like him it’s not middle school anymore so instead of making those
mistakes here are five high-value ways to get his attention
number one exude a high energy and positive body language when you’re
around him in a recent study conducted by speed daters they actually discovered
that expansive body language and that’s basically open gestures were
significantly more attractive than closed off body language and I can
attest to this when I used to coach men on how to go out and flirt and meet uu
sex the single ladies I always would notice when we walk into a new venue we
look for the type of women who had very open body language because that meant
that it was much more likely that they would want to actually talk to us the
second way to get his attention is to add him on social media now I remember
many years ago when I was at a party one night and I talked to a number of
different people that night but when I got home that night one of the women I
talked to added me as a friend on Facebook and then I thought hmm that’s a
pretty good sign it’s a very small step and who knows she could’ve just added me
as a friend just be she does that with everyone she knows
but it’s also just a good way to get my attention to be able to look further
into her and see if hey maybe there’s something there and of course if there
is it’s possible that a guy might actually message you so don’t forget to
leverage social media whether it’s Instagram or Facebook or even snapchat
til to connect with a guy and guys attention tip number three is get
creative now as I mentioned this video is brought to you by Elster and Elster
comm and it’s a secret santa generator where family or friends basically draw
names in anonymously exchange presents now here’s the cool thing about using
Elster as your Secret Santa exchange generator you can actually set it up so
that he ends up having you as his Secret Santa this is where it gets sneaky he’s
going to automatically be getting to know you better because he’s trying to
buy you a gift because he is your Secret Santa even though you know he’s your
Secret Santa on the other hand you could set it up so that you’re his Secret
Santa regardless gifts are being exchanged between the two of you and
it’s a great way to be able to get his attention and by the way if his love
language is receiving gifts then you’re in a very good place number four is
flirt with him now dr. Monica Moore psychologists and Webster University in
st. Louis has conducted research on flirting techniques used at single bars
shopping malls and places where people will go to meet each other and she
concluded through her studies that it’s not the most physically appealing people
who get approached but it’s actually the ones who signal their availability in
confidence using flirting techniques like eye contact and smiling so just by
signaling your interest in someone gets you literally halfway there
whether you’re a man or a woman and finally number five is break the touch
barrier even the slightest touch when you’re having conversation with someone
will signal to them that hey I’m interested in maybe a little bit more
than just a friendship or a professional relationship just the slightest touch on
someone’s arm or even his shoulder is going to give him that thought like ah
maybe this is a little bit more than what I was thinking so I want to hear
from you have you ever used any of these tricks or tips to get a guy’s attention
leave a comment right there below and also a great way to support the channel
be able to support sexy confidence is just go ahead and check out Elster at
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cool curated gift guys and even ability to write your own wish list with a text
wish so it’s really cool stuff for Secret Santas Secret Santas are super
fun if you’ve never done it definitely check out it explained exactly how it
all works and this will be your year to get a guy’s attention if you want or at
least just be able to get a group of friends together to create a Secret
Santa and finally if you enjoyed this video please give it a like on YouTube
and don’t forget to subscribe on YouTube for more videos just like this every
single week thank you so much for watching and I’ll speak to you you sex a
single lady next week bye bye

73 Replies to “5 Simple Tricks to Get a Guy’s Attention (You Won’t BELIEVE #3)”

  1. Now I believe in telepathy because today I was thinking about this and you upload this video today๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

  2. Ugh #5 is so hard~~~~ cause he "quote unquote" doesn't like to be touch "some days" he says, but LOVESSS to touch me. Grant it I understood why he had a girlfriend at the time but still the contradiction is so confusing and funny to me

  3. #3 & #4…I carried a box of D&D Dice in my purse for 3 months until I saw him again! [We're now in our 5th wonderful year of marriage, dice and all.]

  4. OMG… I'm just looking for some confidence secrets to know someone new.
    Give him a present was on my mind, but now, I'm really make something special ๐ŸŽ๐ŸŒŸ
    Thank you Adam ๐Ÿ˜˜โค
    You're the best ๐Ÿ˜Ž

  5. If I add him on my FB or Instagram he's going to think I'm a crazy cat lady. Yup my cat is all over my soical media. Are there any guys that are obbessed with cats like I am?

  6. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚LMAO!!!๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ You are way too funny in your videos!!! great video, Adam!!!๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž

  7. How do you put aside your past hurts and give someone the benefit of the doubt in the beginning stages of getting to know someone/dating? When do you let them know what youโ€™re looking for?

  8. ๐Ÿ˜ I wish I can add him to my social.media red. I will be too obvious. But we have eyes contact. I Will try others tips.txs

  9. Yes, just used the eye-contact/smile at a restaurantโ€™s bar tonight. I had no makeup on, but I sat up tall, cheered loudly for my favorite football team (he was on the other side of the bar) and occasionally glanced at him. It worked! Now heโ€™s texting me!

  10. I don't think this works in argentine society, men are like severity children here, I mean, you gotta be a real bitc* to get their attention

  11. I need some help, so I like this guy….but he's nice at times and really flirty…but there are other times when it's like i don't exist…..I really like this guy….but I don't really know what to do or what my next move should be….can u help me?

  12. I donโ€™t show women attention…she must show interest and attention in me first…why waste my time, effort and resources on someone who has a low attraction or interest level… 3 Million other targets/women to choose from…so little time !!

  13. Open body language, I won't do that. I don't want myself names.i won't act , whoever can handle the shitty mess that I definitely am, will notice my chaos even if I am sitting on the bar with my friends, doesn't matter…

  14. I just used all these when I hung out with my crush on Saturday. We had the BEST DAY EVER ! I asked him to me teach me how to use my cruise control and show me how to check the fluids. I told him that I was going to buy him lunch as a thank you. I even choose the restaurant. I never saw it coming…. My Crush started opening the car door me every time we stopped. And then informed me that he was paying for lunch. I touched him almost as much as he was hugging me. ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ

  15. Well I usually am positive.
    I tried to add a guy on social media. I tried flirty,
    And would try touching to get a guys attention when in person but you can't touch a guy online.
    I think the secret santa is a great idea not just for couple but even for family members.

  16. Lately I haven't been feeling well because I having a ear infection and locked jaw, i try to this guy about it but it like he doesn't understand.

  17. Lmao. This is bad advise. I have women on my social media that add/invite everydamn man. They're that pathetic. Perhaps, meet these women…!

  18. The man I'm interested in is NOT on any social media nor do we text or speak on cell phones. We are in our 60s. Some of your tips must be for the younger crowd.

  19. Hi Adam I donโ€™t with my boyfriend for two weeks because he told me he is very busy when he get time free we can see each other but is passing two weeks again. Now I block him but he donโ€™t call me do you think he not interesting to me?

  20. Thanks but ifย  agirl is very shy and unsure cuz of her past cuz she has met very inhuman guys as the girl is worthy inside and so human, can guys do the Whole job to her and underatand her generally?

  21. You have great advice sad and pathetic when your true direct upfront talk with yourself they all talk gossip bs lies with everyone else getting involved in the relationship family members denial of bs with everyone else gossip bs talk and with themselves to lie with themselves

  22. A secret santa commercial in the middle of your video? Also, there is no way in hell I'm going to start spending money on some potentially crazy woman before I getย to know her. I'm also not going to get her used to me buy a bunch of cr*p for her. What a horrible way to start a potential relationship.

  23. I followed him on Instagram, he followed me back and sent a DM… we met 4days later and we've been dating now for 7months ๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž… loving relationship I might addโคโคโคโคโคโคโค

  24. When I think about it I generally do these things to guys……. So I guess that's why I can't get rid of them ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. I'm not playing with them its just something I do…

  25. ฮ™ don't think adding hin of FB is a really good idea. Things are already awkward enough… I might try the touching thing though. We are co-workers and I can find an excuse to do that!!

    I hope…

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